the thing that's so funny about people who raise a male child is how fucking smug they are when you say that their relationship is unequivocally doomed. they also imply that there is something to be proud of or something to be jealous of in their situation. no, you're the crazy one here. i'm completely sane person here who has some self-respect and dignity for themselves.
the reason why they think we envy them is because they are so codependent that they don't understand that being in a relationship is not an achievement or a measure of happiness. "haha they are jealous of me because they are single who will die alone and will not, due to their own pickiness, understand that to form a relationship you need to make social sacrifices" the fact that we want our husbands to be a men and not some pathetic little boys is not picky and will not cause us to die alone. it's the bare minimum for a healthy relationship. why would we be jealous of your unhealthy relationship?
and ok, even if you're right, are you implying that being in relationship with a manchild is better option than dying alone? yes? i don't think so.